The hardest choice is the right choice, right? Because that just split my heart in two.
I said no to him moving in with me despite the fact he is about to be living in a shelter and all the issues he has with that and from that. I don’t like that he is going there but I also know that him staying with us would not work out because he thinks the whole situation he is in is mostly my fault and will be constantly justifying his anger and mooching on that perception.
His predicament in his mind has nothing to do with his request that I financially support his choice to leave me for another woman was a tad unreasonable considering I was forced to either start my life over or live with my husband having a woman on the side. Or that she hasn’t magically shown up to take care of him. Or that he didn’t bother to make a decent exit plan while having his midlife crisis affair.